Episode Summary

In this episode, we welcome Rachel Estes Leyk, a dedicated mother and author of “Response-Ability.” Rachel shares her journey with her son, Cooper, who was diagnosed with autism at the age of seven. She discusses a pivotal moment in Cooper’s middle school experience that inspired her to create a toolbox of strategies for parents, educators, and caregivers. We explore her AMP model—Advocating, Motivating, and Participating—and how it emphasizes the importance of placing the child at the center of their support system.

Key Takeaways

• The Importance of Advocacy: Place the child at the center of their support system by advocating for their unique needs and strengths.


• Understanding Behavior: Familiarize yourself with the four functions of behavior—attention-seeking, avoidance, sensory needs, and tangible rewards—to better address your child’s actions.


• Connection Over Compliance: Focus on building connections with your child rather than simply enforcing compliance; understanding their behavior is crucial.


• The AMP Model: Utilize the AMP framework—Advocating, Motivating, and Participating—to support your child’s growth and independence.


• Reflection is Key: Encourage daily reflection for both parents and children to foster personal growth and improve relationships.


• Believe in Your Child: Always maintain belief in your child’s abilities and potential, providing them with the support they need to thrive.

Resources Mentioned

Rachel’s Book: On Amazon and her website; Coming January 18, 2026! 

Response-ABILITY: How the Need to Unlock a Child’s Ability to Respond Shapes the Way We Love, Care, Support, and Uplift.

• Website https://rachelestesleyk.com/

Follow Rachel on Social Media:

• LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachelestesleyk/
  Instagram https://www.instagram.com/rachel_estes_leyk/
  TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@rachelestesleyk

Meet Rachel Estes Leyk

Rachel Estes Leyk is an empathetic solution creator, coach, advocate, and author dedicated to equipping children with the tools they need to develop confidence, accountability, and resilience. Raised in Minnesota, she carries a strong Midwest work ethic that evolved into an unstoppable drive, one that blends strategic problem-solving with a deeply empathetic approach.

With an MBA from the University of St. Thomas and a career solving complex business and technology challenges for some of the world’s largest corporations, Rachel brings a unique perspective to personal development. Her 16 years of experience raising a child on the autism spectrum inspired her to develop the Response – ABILITY Toolbox, a practical framework designed to help children build the skills they need to navigate life with strength and intention.

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